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[allamericanreject]

So like. i think i've decided I'm pretty bad at dealing with people forever. especially girls. I mean seriously, I like girls and all, they're wonderful and sweet and beautiful to look at both inside and out.
but i just dont think im any good at/with/for girls.
hm.
any girls got advice for like.
fixing friendships?
or guys too. that'll work.
Seriously. im startin to get annoyed now. but I shouldnt be mad right?

Comments

[di_intraining]

They're not that different from blokes. Just be a bit more sensitive with them, I suppose.

[allamericanreject]

I really was trying to be. i think it's just circumstances.

[di_intraining]

Maybe.

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This wouldn't have anything to do with Victoria, does it?

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[allamericanreject]

It might. kind of. she's one of the only girls i talk to really. :(

[Translation: 50% of the issue concerns her.]

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[di_intraining]

[The next few words are written with very harsh quill strokes.]

What did you do?

[ladyliberty]

If you're looking at girls from the inside, that might be your problem.

[allamericanreject]

Um well.

[Inkblots]

YOU KNOW WHAT I MEANT.

[ladyliberty]

Stop looking girls in the spleen and then maybe we can talk.

[doctorkishitani]

If you're looking at their spleens, you could just think of them as boys if that makes things easier for you. I don't think there's much difference between the male and female spleen.

[ladyliberty]

It's a joke. You know what those are, right smart guy?

[allamericanreject]

Uh
Shinra
i dont think
were actually lookin at spleens. cuz i dont want to look at any spleens male or female.

[preanimator]

Actually, there's considerable difference, though I doubt it would be visible to the naked eye. There are some significant sex-related innate differences in the immune response, often driven by various splenic expressions of certain genes. Certain proteins, cell receptors, and enzymes are effected.

[allamericanreject]

Yep because I totally know where spleens are. =P do you even know where the spleen is? lol

[ladyliberty]

I dunno, it's on the inside somewhere. I just like the word. Spleen.

But seriously though you ever think maybe actin' like girls are some kinda different species or works of art or somethin' is your problem? They're just people.

[moveslikejaeger]

you should come spend time with me with the goats you can make as many mistakes with people as you like they will always love you

[allamericanreject]

Meh. i'm not in the mood for goats though man. uggh. I think i just want to eat all of my candy and forget that shit's even goin on anymore. Seriously it feels all dramatic lately. >:(

[moveslikejaeger]

it does doesnt it? i keep saying stupid things and getting into fights i shouldnt be in myself and it bothers me im hoping im just feeling a bit pent up and that having a chance to fight will settle it

[allamericanreject]

you know
maybe havin a fight would do me some good too. I dont like fightin but sometimes its good to punch somethin till you feel better isn't it?

[moveslikejaeger]

i always recommend punching things to be perfectly honest
not many people are willing to give it a try tho
but yes hitting things feels really really good i think

[cantstarvethisfire]

Think before you speak to them? Or just don't talk to any ever again.

[allamericanreject]

Maybe I shouldnt. :(

[cantstarvethisfire]

That's admitting that you can't think before you speak.

[allamericanreject]

Kinda sorta. I mean sometimes I just dont think, its not that i cant think.

and sometimes i dont realize.

[cantstarvethisfire]

Try counting to three before you speak and maybe you'll think of something? Though chances are some people will think you're just slow.

[edle_gestalt]

Sometimes things can be quite turbulent and often, it will just bounce back to where it was before. It depends on th

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I am not sure I am in the best position to give advice, as I am confident the situations aren't comparable.

Fixing friendships is likely more difficult when romance is involved, which I'm assuming is what you're referring to, though I have no input on that subject. Godspeed.